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The Best Jeans for Your Shape

The venerable pantheon of modern information, Wikipedia, tells us that the word "denim" comes from the name of a sturdy fabric called serge, originally made in Nîmes, France, by the Andre family. Originally called serge de Nîmes, the name was soon shortened to denim. Denim was traditionally colored blue with indigo dye to make blue ‘jeans,’ though ‘jean’ then denoted a different, lighter cotton textile; the contemporary use of jean comes from the French word for Genoa, Italy (Gênes), where the first denim trousers were made.” Worn in the U.S. since the California gold rush of the 1840’s, blue jeans have now become the go-to garment for the haut monde as well as the hangers-on. Be honest: aside from a formal wedding or your first dinner with your significant other’s parents—and every fashionista knows that those occasions call for the most gorgeous of dresses!—is there really any occasion that cannot be dressed for appropriately with the right pair of denims? The key to getting it just right has nothing whatever to do with budget, and everything to do with knowing your body. There’s a pair for everybody and every body, if you know what to look for. And we’re all so lucky, because finally, the range of “in” jeans includes a cut that works for YOU!

Apple-shape: Look for a higher-waist cut to help hold in a fuller tummy. One fabulous brand out there is the NYDJ jean with Lift Tuck Technology—lifts and shapes curves so you instantly appear one size smaller. Choose a boot-cut or straight-leg style to help balance out a fuller midsection with width at the ankle. A spectacular choice for apples, a breezy top or trapeze jacket is right on trend, and a fresh color will liven up your favorite pair for any daytime adventure. Add a bright wedge or patent flat, and you’re off.

Curvy hips: So many companies make jeans for curvy figures now! No longer do we have to suffer with pants that fit at the hips and gap at the waist. Steer clear of ultra-skinnies, and choose a wide-leg or a boot-cut that balances fullness at the top of the leg. Look for a cut that falls straight to the hem from the widest part of the hip for a lean, extended leg line. Add further length by forgoing the flats and choosing a gorgeous heel or an espadrille. Highlight your curves on top with a great cardigan topped by a bright belt, or a nipped-waist blazer with a floaty blouse. If the wide-leg is a dark wash and a sophisticated trouser cut, you can wear them to work on casual Friday and still impress the boss, maybe with a tunic tee on top (just make sure it’s not so long it reaches the top of your leg—those gams need to look as loooong as you can get them!).

Boyish hips: The only shape that can pull off skinny-leg jeans with any success, these girls need to steer clear of flares or exaggerated boot-cuts. Stick with straight, boyfriend, or a wide-leg style that doesn’t overwhelm narrow thighs and straight hips; too much curve or fullness at the hem will drown you. A perfect combination of the slim hip and full leg is the sailor-cut, which is sleek and fitted at the hip, with a gentle expansion all the way down. These look fantastic with a delicate fitted top or a peplum jacket and a platform peep-toe or espadrille. They’re also very useful for all occasions, especially in a dark wash or a crisp white or pinstripe.

Petite: Here’s where proportion really reaches critical status. You should definitely shop in the petites section, because just hemming a longer pair of pants only works with straight legs. Losing two or three inches at the hemline would ruin the look of a boot-cut or wide-leg pair. And flares are right out: you’d look like you were standing in a bucket, even in heels. Stick with an even wash— any horizontal action, like whiskering, will chop up the long line we’re trying to create. Another no-no: long shirts or sweaters that end at the top of the leg—they’ll make a petite look like she’s playing dress-up in her mommy’s clothes. Add even more length with a platform shoe, but if you’re wearing a skinny or straight-leg, you can go with a ballet flat. Just remember that monochromatic looks (even if you’re wearing all blues, not necessarily all navy) will extend your legs even further.

Tall: Lucky girls: you can try any leg style you want. Flares, straight, boot-cut, wide-leg, tailored …but unless you really want to emphasize your height, I’d recommend steering clear of the skinny. Work this season’s hottest trend in a wide-leg or sailor jean in bright white, with a sassy springy top and metallic gladiator sandals. Or divide your gorgeous gams with the slick Bermuda-length denims that have hit the scene this year. WARNING: avoid crops at all costs! They won’t make anyone wonder where you scored that terrific outfit, but they will prompt speculation about impending flooding. There are many retailers that have a special selection of tall jeans, with inseams of 37”; do your homework and you will be rewarded. Flats will ground you, and let you walk all day in comfort. For evening, pop an sweet cropped jacket over a long, hip-length cami and an embellished sandal —dynamite!

Remember: no matter what the hottest style is, if it doesn’t work on your body, you’ll look dumpy at best and un-chic at worst (gasp!). The most stylish women wear what works for them, and look fantastic all the time. Which is really what we’re going for here, right? Start today and shine all spring long—just be prepared to attract a following (check your rear view in the mirror before leaving the house, too!).

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 Spring Getaway Essentials!

Give yourself a spring break! If you’re taking a vacation this spring you need these warm weather beauty essentials. 

Lumene Bright Now Vitamin C BB Serum is lightweight, packed with Vitamins and all the benefits of a BB without the color! No melty cakey makeup face in the heat.  Get a luminous glow, blur imperfections, and smooth skin in one step. 
Sun Bum Lip Balm SPF 30 is actually the tastiest SPF ever.  Available in 6 scrumptious flavors, this moisturizing Lip Balm contains SPF 30 to keep those puckers protected from sun and wind burn. 
Allow your evening look to last on vacation with Smashbox Photo Finish Foundation Primer Travel SizeEasy to pop in your purse or makeup bag, this primer creates a smooth canvas for makeup, and will hold it on through that warm humid night. 

Prep your Skin for Summer with Soap & Glory!

Spring is finally here and summer is just around the corner — and it's never too soon to start prepping your skin for bikini weather. These essentials from Soap & Glory will have your skin smooth and silky in no time!

First, start with a body scrub to eliminate dead skin cells from dry, cold winter weather. Try Soap & Glory Flake Away Body Polish. This smoothing body polish is made from Shea Butter, sweet almond oil, peach seed powder, sea salt, and sugar for a formula that eliminates dry skin.
Next, moisturize your skin after showering with Soap & Glory The Righteous Body Butter Lotion, made with shea and cocoa seed butters, sweet almond and rosehip seed oils, aloe vera, vitamin E, and a special seaweed-sourced smoother. This hydrating lotion goes on silky—never greasy—and swiftly replenishes moisture to dry elbows, knees, and feet.
Finally, don’t neglect your hands and feet! Use Soap & Glory Heel Genius to rejuvenate rough feet in a single overnight session. Put it on before bed and wakeup with smooth feet that will be ready for sandals and flip flops!
Lastly, moisturize your hands daily with Soap & Glory Hand Food. This hand cream is non greasy, formulated with shea butter, macadamia oil, and marshmallow. It will soften and soothe dry, chapped hands that have been hiding in those gloves all winter long.

Fabulous Summer Collection from tarte!

Create your signature summer look with these gorgeous products from tarte:

Amazonian clay 12-hour blush in captivating
limited-edition lights, camera, splashes™
4-in-1 waterproof mascara
Brazilliance™ skin rejuvenating maracuja self tanning face towelettes
LipSurgence™ lip gloss
 not so slick oil-absorbing blotting papers
 smooth operator™ Amazonian clay
pressed finishing powder
 frame worker double-ended brow powder brush
 fresh eyes maracuja waterproof
eye makeup remover wipes

shop the tarte Summer 2014 Collection 

Restore Strength to Strands with the New John Frieda® Full Repair® Collection

THINK: Weightless repair for brittle, overworked hair.

WHAT IT IS: A full line of transformative hair care treatments to reverse the look and feel of damage. Everyday heat damage from blow drying, flat ironing, and curling can leave hair dry and prone to breakage. So put back in as much as you take out with new offerings from the salon-inspired John Frieda® Full Repair® collection. Each lightweight formula infuses strands with nourishing Inca Inchi Oil, high in Omega 3 and a high concentration of fatty acids, to restore hair from the inside out without weighing it down. Hair is left smooth, healthy, and full of body—actively repaired from past damage and proactively protected from heat and wear.

John Frieda® Hair Care International Creative Consultant Harry Josh explains, “I regularly work with some of the most damaged hair in the industry because my celebrity and model clients undergo non-stop heat-styling for photo shoots, films, appearances, and red carpet events. To keep their hair looking camera-ready, it’s so important to have a repairing regimen in place, like the Full Repair® collection, to restore split ends and flyaways and protect from future damage.”

NEW Strengthen + Restore Shampoo: This potent strengthening formula harnesses the power of Inca Inchi Oil, which contains 47 times more omega-3 than Argan Oil to restore resiliency without adding weight. With daily use, hair is protected from breakage and split ends right in the shower for full, bouncy styles.
NEW Strengthen + Restore ConditionerWeightlessly restore damaged strands to sleek, smooth health with this targeted conditioner. Essential fatty acids from precious Inca Inchi Oil create a smooth and flexible film, wrapping broken strands to strengthen and replenish while still maintaining coveted volume.
NEW Repairing Oil Elixir: This nourishing oil smoothes hair while strengthening and adding shine. For strength and sleekness from root to tip, distribute one pump into palms, rub together to warm, and spread through wet or damp hair. Or, for a final style finisher, apply a few drops to dry hair to tame flyaways and boost shine.
Hydrate + Rescue Deep Conditioner: This revolutionary deep conditioner infuses hair with intense moisture to instantly improve the look and feel of damage with just one use. Packed with Inca Inchi Oil, the lightweight, non-greasy formula quenches dry, damaged hair for the ultimate in softness and shine without weighing it down. Hair is 90% smoother in just one use.

ORLY Spring 2014 Collection

Embrace femininity with a color palette that is delicate, dreamy and sweet. The time has come to applaud approachable beauty with Blush, the new Spring 2014 color collection from ORLY. Nails take cues from cosmetics – a windblown flush or glossy lip inspires pretty lacquered fingertips. Blush invites you to fall in love with natural beauty that is tender, feminine and altogether genuine.

The six lacquers in the Blush Collection include:


Naked Canvas: Nude with Pink Pearl
Cheeky: Peach Shimmer
First Blush: Coral Crème
Dare to Bare: Taupe Crème
Classic Contours: Mauve Crème
Flawless Flush: Cool Lilac w/Gold Shimmer 

Orly Nail Polish - Blush Collection

Put Your Best Curl Forward
OGX Moroccan Curling Perfection Defining Cream

OGX Moroccan Curling Perfection Defining Cream 

This summer, rejuvenate hair and create soft, seductive curls with OGX Moroccan Curling Perfection Defining Cream. This moisturizing and lavish cream imparts natural elasticity to hair while conditioning and repairing past damage.  Formulated with argan oil of Morocco, this vitamin rich antioxidant instantly penetrates the hair shaft to restore shine while improving hair’s inner health. Thanks to OGX, you can celebrate summer with reduced frizz, revived hair and revamped voluminous curls.

Moroccan Curling Perfection Defining Cream

  • Formula restores hair’s inner health with argan oil nutrients to define natural curls and reduce frizz
  • Revives waves, allowing hair to have a bouncy luster and leaves locks smooth and shiny
  • Powerful antioxidant Argan oil of Morocco instantly penetrates the hair shaft to restore hair health

Be a Natural Beauty this Spring!

What better way to start off a new season then with refreshing, and all-natural beauty products from Jurlique, Arbonne and PHYTO? A new season, a new you! These natural wonders will leave you glowing head to toe!

Jurlique Purely Bright Eye Correcting Cream: An advanced eye cream that brightens and protects the delicate skin around your eyes, formulated with Kakadu Plum: the world’s richest natural source of Vitamin C. It's a powerful multi-tasking solution to bring out your bright eyed beauty - help target visible under-eye problems like dark circles, eye bags and discolorations while leaving the eye area looking healthier and less fatigued.
Arbonne Intelligence CC Cream: This multitasking 10-in-1 Complexion Control Cream contains Phytinol, the Arbonne Proprietary complex that knows exactly what your skin needs. This formula’s nurturing botanicals soothe and hydrate to protect skins moisture barrier, create a healthier, dewy-looking complexion. Lightweight coverage builds to conceal blemishes and dark spots, while minimizing the appearance of pores.
Phyto Phytoneutre Clarifying Detox Shampoo 3.3oz 
PHYTO Phytoneutre Shampoo: A clarifying detox shampoo that deeply cleanses without stripping away the moisture, leaving hair soft, manageable and bouncy! Phytoneutre stimulates and oxygenates the scalp all while eliminating the product build-up that drags hair down

Spring Cleaning for Your Beauty Cabinets!

With the start of spring comes one very important task – spring cleaning, of course. It’s that time of year to empty out those beauty drawers and vanities to dispose the old and make room for the new. With these new/innovative products and classic springtime beauty staples, stepping out for spring has never looked so good! Look flawless everyone from your hair to your skin to your makeup.


NEW! Burt’s Bees Lip Shimmers in Apricot and Grapefruit
Look as vibrant as you feel with the rich, luminescent color and pearlized shine of Burt’s Bees® Lip Shimmers in two new refreshing shades. Try Apricot for a beautiful peach-coral or Grapefruit for a delicate, sweet pink. Both feature Shea Butter and antioxidant-rich Fruit Oils to moisturize, nourish, and soften lips naturally.

Philip B. Maui Wowie Volumizing & Thickening Beach Mist
This must-have mist is a lightweight styling product that infuses your hair with body and brings out its natural wave. Maui Wowie keeps your hair looking fresh, effortless, and sophisticated, especially when the weather turns sticky.  Perfect for all your spring break travel!


NEW! Josie Maran Pure Argan Milk
Keep skin hydrated this summer. All the skin-saving benefits of Josie Maran’s 100% organic Argan Oil in an ultra-absorbent, micro-droplet format. Oil and water: the building blocks of healthy skin famously get along like, well, oil and water. To deliver the hydrating and skin-plumping benefits of water with the nutrients and skin cell protection of pure Argan Oil, Josie Maran has developed a propriety blend of both essentials. The innovative Pure Argan Milk Intensive Hydrating Treatment features the cleanest, purest water with Argan Oil micro-droplets that work deep within the skin to deliver anti-aging benefits at a cellular level.


Josie Maran Magic Marker Lip & Cheek Stain
Finally, a stain that pampers, not parches, with a juicy flush that feels as healthy as it looks. The chunky felt tip delivers a moist hit of color that dries instantly to a flawless matte finish. It’s a cinch to adjust the intensity for day or night: try one coat for demure, two for va-va-voom.
Available Shades: Flamenco, Fox Trot, Waltz, Jitterbug, Jive, Tango


John Frieda Volume Curls 1 1/2” Curling Iron
This curling iron is engineered with Titanium Ceramic Technology and Advanced Ionic Conditioning to seal in moisture and reduce frizz. With 11 digital heat settings offering high heat up to 400°F/205°C, it’s easy to select a safe heat level for your hair type. Designed for quick, easy styling, the Volume Curls curling iron banishes dull, heat damaged locks and ushers in soft, gorgeous hair.


John Frieda Large Porcupine Round Brush Volume Curls
This unique brush features nylon and boar bristles designed to distribute the scalp’s natural oils for added shine and smoothness, an ideal blowout booster. Best when used with the John Frieda Volume Curls Curling Iron for gorgeous, voluminous hair!


güd by Burt’s Bees Mango Moonbreeze Collection

Think tropical island getaway on a moonlit starry night. This amazing new collection is available in shampoo, conditioner, body lotion and body wash. Infused with all natural ingredients including lemon, bergamot, and plum, these products will help you fight dry hair and skin from head to toe with a burst of much-needed moisture.

Soothe Dry Skin with Curél

Curel Targeted Therapy Hand & Cuticle Therapy Cream for Dry, Chapped Hands  Curél Hand & Cuticle Therapy Cream – Constant hand washing to ward off winter germs and exposure to ice cold temperatures can leave hands parched and cracked. This cream soothes even the driest hands on contact and continues to moisturize even through repeated hand washings for all-day softness. This non-greasy formula is infused with soy milk, monoi oil, and vitamin E to help soften hands in just one use
Curél Intensive Healing Cream – This proven formula provides immediate moisturization to help heal even the driest skin, often left irritated from dry winter air and long, hot showers. This gentle cream absorbs quickly, replenishes moisture and helps revitalize ceramide levels for long-lasting relief and hydration—perfect for skin tortured by freezing cold temperatures and dry air.

Get the Beauty Blues This Spring with Target

Get the beauty blues of spring, with offerings from Target-exclusive brands Pixi by Petra and Umberto Beverly Hills, and the new premium skincare assortment. With a range of skincare, makeup and hair care offerings, it’s easy and affordable to rock trendy blue hues this season – all for under $25



Prep skin with the MD Complete Restoring Cleanser for a squeaky clean canvas, then provide shelter from the sun with MD Complete Youthful Skin Sun Shield SPF 50


Perfect the beauty blues with a subtle or smoky blue eye using the Pixi by Petra Endless Silky Eye Pen in Black Blue and Lash Booster Mascara in Blackest Blue

Polish off the look with Umberto Beverly Hills Dry Texture Spray for a pretty, piece-y style and Pixi by Petra Nail Colour in L.A. Blue for on-trend tips

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