Accessorize For Summer
Dear She She Me,

I'm hoping this letter finds you fabulously well, settled into your apartment and completely confident in your new setting. Who am I kidding? You're probably obsessing over beige walls, the lack of space in your closet, the absence of my closet, wrinkled white button-downs and the fact that the hipster coffee shop girl there seems to chat regularly with the hipster coffee shop girl here, as she's just as snooty to you when you order your frou-frou latte. Some things never change.

You haven't missed a ton here, just the usual routine of coffee, fashion mags, cell phone rants (though not as much, because I've learned it's rather costly when you go over your allotted minutes. Hello? When did rationing start again?). I did just finish up some much-needed retail therapy (it seems goodbyes do have an effect on me), where I stocked up on loads of fabu accessories for summer. Please tell me you have not forgotten that though clothes do make the fashionista, it's the accessories that make the clothes. I figured there was a small-to-medium chance that you had actually forgotten that tidbit of fashion-forward knowledge, so I've made you a cheat sheet (see list below). In fact, I figured that extended time away from me and my approving (or disapproving) eye, coupled with the stress of new environs, would result in a fashion breakdown. I would hate to see years of work and friendship go to waste, so I'm going to keep you in-the-know via letters and email. You can thank me when I visit. Now, back to accessorizing for the summer.

Take the list I made for you to some of the new shops in your area and hand it to the most fashionable associate there (preferably female [no offense guys, but it's just not the same], and an accent usually helps). She'll take good care of you in my absence. A little retail FYI; it's always good to develop relationships with sales associates, as they make you feel very important and semi-famous. They'll call you when a shipment comes in that you may like, they'll bring you water in the dressing room (or even a cocktail, sometimes) and will always tell you how smashing you look, except of course when you don't. And since you're there and I'm here, you'll need some help.

Summer Accessory Essentials (in no particular order, as they are all important and essential; hence the title):

•  Sunglasses . They should be over-sized, very dark and not mirrored (that is soooo out, unless of course they're aviators and you're channeling the L.A. look). Remember, the wider and darker they are, the easier it will be to people watch, which will be useful in your new town. Don't be fooled into thinking one pair will do. Would you wear one pair of wedges all summer? I should hope not. Pick up a pair in black, tortoiseshell and a fun color, like deep green. (To clarify, when I say color, I don't mean thick neon. I'm referring to shades with subtly tinted frames, like these Michael Kors gems.

•  Wood. I can see your confused face now, but SSM, you must get several wood necklaces and do not be afraid to layer them. They look great with tanks and skirts, which have become my summer uniform, but are fabulous with more formal ensembles too. Don't stop with a necklace; pick up some wood bangles and earrings too; just try to wear them separately and not all at once.

•  Bold Necklaces. See above info on wood, but this is not limited to wood. Think double and triple strands of coral and turquoise. Other colorful stones and beads work as well. The layered look is big for summer, She She Me, so that means we can be a little more subdued in dress. Since you're going into some high-powered exec job, you should try layers of gemstones with your crisp button-downs. You would be so corporate chic. In addition to that, you can mix and match pieces and textures. For example, coral necklaces with gold hoops and a statement-making ring. Definitely stow the small jewels and go big for the summer.

•  The Bag. Try not to forget there's more to accessories than jewelry. I suppose now that you have a real job (and your worth is no longer determined by the bag you carry), you'll need a more professional-looking tote, but when you're out and about ditch structured for slouch. Spring satchels are all about soft, touchable leather and other luxe fabrics. Have fun; choose a bag in a bright color or print. I know you're really aching for white, but I'm a little skeptical to give you the go-ahead for several reasons. The first being red wine, the second being your failure to cap your lipsticks. I'm thinking a maharaja-ish hobo may be the way for you to go.

•  Wedges. Get a couple of pairs; maybe a rattan heel and a wood heel. Do practice walking before socializing; a thicker heel doesn't mean mobility is easier. Do wear them with everything from jeans and skirts to slacks and dresses. When paired with appropriate attire, they can become office-friendly.

•  Flats. Certainly not intended to take the place of heels, but some outfits are made for flats. Find some metallic skimmers for summer and you'll be set. If you're looking for an investment try Kate Spade's, knotted slides. If you just want to jump on the trend for a limited time, you'll be safe (and not broke) with Urban Outfitters' metallic slides.

You should be good as far as accessories go, for now. Try not to go crazy and make any big purchases without consulting me. Remember to keep your mani fresh (it may be time to jump back on the color on nails/neutral on toes wagon) and limit blow-dry use to only working days. I'll be back in touch soon.

xox,

Shop Girl

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