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Upgrade Your Work Style
Was just settling in nicely at work—had ordered oh-so-chic wedge espadrilles (one of this season's must haves) as well as exquisite goddess thongs (anything that can stay in style for 4,000 years has my vote) and was still surfing for the perfect straw tote. Had replied to email from Shop Girl informing her that yes, I was actively searching for the perfect pair of white summer trousers and yes, I was aware that it was très passé to wear a pair with visible pockets. Also, her suggestion of flirty dress is perfect for this weekend's dinner date, but am now in a quandary regarding appropriate footwear selection—wedges are a bit too beach-y and I wore my sassy new slides last weekend. (Boys may not notice these things but we girls do; better drop by the shoe boutique after work—spied a darling pair in the window just this morning that I think will be perfect!) Was able to download several great summer reads to my nifty new Kindle (am already picturing myself on a lounge chair by the pool looking oh-so-glamorous) and had done a little Facebook
stalking skimming to see what my peeps were up to.
Anyhoo, was about to get down to some serious project research (i.e. Neiman's Spring Catalog) when I received the following email from Scott in accounting:
"Hey She She, word on the street is that you really know your way around the system. In fact, they're calling you the new IT girl."
Moi? And "IT" girl? (And who, exactly, are "they"? And on what street is this supposed word?) Naomi Watts is an IT girl. Sienna Miller is an IT girl. Kate Hudson, Scarlett Johansson, Jennifer Aniston, all IT girls. A bit perplexed here. While I must admit to an unerring (most of the time, and usually with a sign-off from Shop Girl) eye for what is chic, stylish and trendy, as well as the innate ability to coordinate separates and accessories to make it appear that my wardrobe is endless (how I miss having access to Shop Girl's closet!) not to mention my nose for a great bargain. I was, however, unaware that said talents and abilities had come to the attention of "them". I read on.
"In fact, we could really use your expertise tomorrow. We have a video conference with the Santa Monica office and wondered if you could put together a short demo? You know, give everyone an idea of the inherent growth opportunity available through general and/or specific upgrades. Just a quick overview; twenty minutes tops. Conference room. Ten o'clock."
My moment to shine at last! I've always felt that my coworkers could benefit from general and/or specific upgrades. I mean some of the girls here take Casual Friday just a tad too far—flip flops, denim, halter tops. Which is fine and dandy for the company BBQ but not exactly a chic professional look. I mean it's a well known fact (well, it should be) that your innate fashion sense (or lack thereof) speaks volumes about you—would Anna Wintour show up at the office in flip-flops? Would Katie Couric hide her gorgeous gams in a black polyester pantsuit to interview George Clooney? I think not! My head began to swim with ideas: a slick slide presentation on Kate Spade vs. Tory Burch. A Powerpoint on Sassy and Sophisticated Footwear—Beyond the Black Pump. A question and answer session on the correlation between au courant fashions and the upward mobility of the young chic executive. Tips for dressing like a Fortune 500 executive on a Girl Friday salary.
As I sat at my desk, furiously making notes, jotting down ideas and tearing pages from my Neiman's catalog, I heard a knock at my office door. Fiona (my immediate superior) poked her head in and asked if I had the proofs ready for her sign-off. I explained that I had gotten caught up in planning for my "IT" Girl presentation tomorrow, but would get the proofs to her post haste. At her bewildered look, I showed her the email from Scott.
"She She darling, I think there's been a bit of miscommunication here. I believe the IT that Scott is referring to is 'Information Technology'. And while we all appreciate your ability to surf umpteen fashion sites at once, answer email, update blogs, bid on designer goods from eBay, all while simultaneously purchasing extremely stylish shoes online, I have the feeling that it's not exactly what the Santa Monica office is looking for."
Hmmm, well girls, looks like you will be the beneficiaries of my temporary "It Girl" status and subsequent fashion frenzy. Disclaimer: unless this is your first day of work, you already know the basic acceptable style of your particular workplace—some are über-casual (like mine, think Royal Pains) others a bit more staid (think Fairly Legal).
Tips for Updating Your Professional Style:
- Don't be cheap with your feet. Buy excellent quality shoes and keep them in tip-top shape. Stay away from too-high, too strappy, or too casual.
- Choose your handbag wisely. Nothing too slouchy or casual—you aren't headed to the county fair. Same rule as the shoes—go with quality over quantity—it truly is an investment! Your shoes and handbag define your style.
- Keep the hemlines near the knee. Too short and you look like a tramp (did anyone seriously believe Ally McBeal was a savvy attorney?) too long and you look like a frump. Take a lesson from the chic and stylish Duchess of Cambridge!
- Fit is key. Pants should be fitted, but free of visible panty lines. If they are low-rise, be sure to wear a longer blouse, cami or jacket. Nothing is more unprofessional than exposed midriff. Skirts, especially straight styles like pencil skirts, should be loose enough to sit down in comfortably. Jackets should be able to be buttoned. And blouses shouldn't never gap open (no one really wants to know what color bra you have on).
- Underwear as outerwear is a no-no. Keep that cute camisole covered with a cropped jacket or lightweight sweater.
- A polished image is in the details: manicured nails, run-free hose, scuff-free shoes.
- Remember, less is more when it comes to jewelry, hair and makeup.
Looks to avoid in the workplace:
- Too sexy: sheer tops, see-through lace, miniskirts, spaghetti straps, flimsy sundresses.
- Too casual: jeans, shorts, T-shirts, hats, sneakers.
- Too sloppy: wrinkled clothing, too many layers, baggy-fit clothing.
- Too fancy: sequins, rhinestones, lamé. Seriously, one of the tellers at my bank last December wore a red sequined dress to work because she didn't want to have to go home to change for her husband's office party. Yikes!
Best tip of the day:
- Emulate the higher-ups. Look to the girl at the top of the corporate totem pole and take a page from her style sheet. Remember the old adage, "Dress like the fashionista whose job you want to have."
Second-best tip of the day:
- When you leave work this afternoon, stop by the nearest bakery and pick up a nice, hot cinnamon roll. Then go home, kick off your shoes, curl up with a really great book, lick the gooey frosting from your fingers and forget all about looking like a total dweeb in front of your boss today. Oh wait, that was me. Never mind.
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Lace Sleeve Trend: Love it or Hate it?
I don't know about you, but I'm still trying to catch up on missing an entire night's sleep while watching the Royal Wedding. Oh, but it was worth it! From the first sightings of the hoi polloi with their haughty expressions and chic chapeaux to Pippa in that spectacular bridesmaid gown, I was positively glued to the screen. And the most highly anticipated moment for fashionistas everywhere - when Kate emerged from her hotel and stepped into the car and we all got our first glimpse of the much-guessed-about wedding dress: a fitted V-neck gown in ivory and white satin gazar with a long-sleeved lace overlay, designed by McQueen creative director Sarah Burton.
Me? I loved it. I thought it was absolute perfection. Classic, elegant, exquisite. And while we all knew that she would wear a modest gown, as all royal brides do, I for one swept away by it's simple elegance, classic styling and that fabulous embroidered skirt.
And I'm thinking a new trend for lace sleeves is emerging.
What do you think? Lace sleeves - love it or hate it?
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Spring styles are in at Tory Burch! Check out Tory's Must-Haves for 2011:
A classic cardigan works for day and evening.
I love the tassel details and bright color of this classic silhouette.
A classic wedge espadrille in a graphic print - a spring must!
A little Parisian chic!
More of Tory's Must Haves for Spring 2011 are available now!
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Jennifer Lopez has been dubbed the World’s Most Beautiful Woman by PEOPLE Magazine and Too Faced Co-Founder, Jerrod Blandino gave his beauty tips on E! News on how to create the radiant, glowing look. But, in case you missed it – sigh; we have the beauty secrets so that you can get the look in minutes at home:
Too Faced Primed & Poreless Bronze Tint SPF 20
Too Faced Full Bloom Cheek & Lip Color
Beauty Tip #1: Warm skin tone & brighten cheeks!
Use Too Faced Primed & Poreless Bronze Tint SPF 20 to warm and bronze your complexion while masking imperfections and pores. Primer, bronzer, and protection all in one – what more could we ask for! Then, use the creamy Too Faced Full Bloom Cheek & Lip Color for a lasting radiant flush.
Too Faced Bronzed & the Beautiful Bronzing Collection
Too Faced Retractable Bronze-Buki Brush
Beauty Tip #2: Apply Bronzer with sheen!
Create the glow by applying bronzer with a hint of sheen, like the Too Faced Bronzed & the Beautiful Bronzing Collection. It’s important to use a flat-headed brush for flawless application such as the Too Faced Retractable Bronze-Buki Brush. Make sure to use a light sweeping motion starting fro the forehead down to the chin, hitting all the focal spots of your face – and of course a second swipe to the T-zone.
Beauty Tip #3: Create strong jaw line & highlight!
Swipe a darker bronzing shade from the Too Faced Bronzed & the Beautiful Bronzing Collection along your jaw to create a strong, sexy jaw line. Be sure to blend the bronzer into you neck and chest area with the Too Faced Retractable Bronze-Buki Brush. Finally to complete the glowing look, take the Too Faced Primed & Poreless Bronze Tint SPF 20 and use it as a highlighter. Dab it onto your cheek bones and upper lip area to be the mot beautiful woman you can be!
Bandha T-Strap Sandal
Looking for the perfect pair of sandals for summer? My go-to choice for the season is the Bandha T Strap sandal from Patagonia . With it's full grain leather upper and glove leather lining it is sleek and stylish to the eye and positively luxurious to wear.
With it's simple yet elegant styling the Bandha T-Strap Sandal is the perfect choice for dress or casual wear, making it the ideal summer travel sandal.
Spring is finally here, which means it’s time to clean out our closets, plant some seeds and start enjoying the outdoors! If your hands are still showing signs of the frigid winter weather, not to worry LUSH is offering a helping hand with our innovative NEW! Tiny Hands Solid Serum. Featuring unique ingredients such as velvety argan oil, soothing marigold petals and ethically sourced shea butter, this solid hand serum will heal the roughest of hands. True to LUSH’s eco-friendly fashion, Tiny Hands requires no packaging and can be stored in a reusable tin, which is perfect for traveling.
Tiny Hands Solid Serum is now available in all LUSH stores and LUSH.com.
Beat the Frizzies With Sedu
Looking for a way to beat the frizz that comes with spring showers? Sedu’s Anti-Frizz Polishing Treatment with Pure Moroccan Argan Oil is every beauty maven’s secret weapon in wet weather.
The unique formula combines pure Moroccan argan oil and other key ingredients to instantly absorb into the hair shaft and provide multi-tiered benefits that will ensure your locks are smooth, shiny and polished—all while protecting against heat.
HOW TO GET THE SLEEK LOOK WITH SEDU
Start with a dime-sized amount to the palm of the hand (remember: a little goes a long way!)
Apply throughout damp or dry hair, using more or less depending on hair length
Style as usual
Aubrey Organics NEW Natural Sun collection
Whether you’re splashing in the pool, sweating through an outdoor
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exposure any time you’re outside. In fact, a recent study showed that adults who use
sunscreen daily can reduce their risk of developing melanoma by half1. That’s why
Aubrey Organics, a trusted leader in natural personal care for more than 40 years, is
proud to introduce the NEW Natural Sun collection. The new collection boasts safe and
effective sun care for the whole family to protect against the damaging effects of UV
exposure without the use of harmful chemicals. With six all-natural, broad spectrum
mineral sunscreens and two products for after sun care, there’s something for everyone!
M∙A∙C Primed For Perfection
M∙A∙C owns the primers category. Now we’re taking Prep + Prime further than ever. Use it under, over, during or after makeup application, and marvel at the ease with which it can accept concealer, cooperate with colour. And now, with NEW PREP + PRIME VIBRANCY EYE, P + P advances eyes, focuses potential. A lightweight, quick fix AND long-term solution for puffy, tired-looking creases and bags that targets the three main causes for dark under eye circles – pigmentation, visibly weakened capillaries and shadowing – while illuminating the eye area with optical effects for instant luminosity. Vibrancy Eye provides pick-me-up power and moisturization. One step and you’re prepped for makeup magic. A wonderful NEW shaded highlighter debuts with this collection – PREP + PRIME HIGHLIGHTER is lush and cushiony, yet lightweight – in wonderful hues that provide a sheer wash of colour to highlight, brighten and perfect. The click “pen” allows for exact application.
Baby Phat L♥V ME
by Kimora Lee Simmons
This powerful, flirtatious fragrance captures the essence of feminine strength and says to the world, “LOVE ME for the essence of who I am… Admire me for my strength and spirit. Cherish me for my passion and drive. Respect me for my aspirations that DARE ME to dream. What’s most important is that you LOVE ME …for me.”
The Oriental Vanilla Musk fragrance opens with a fresh fusion of Apricot Blossom, Tangerine, and Passion Fruit that unfolds into an exotic floral bouquet of Frangipani Blossom, Jasmine Petals and Tiger Orchid with a soft, sensual drydown of Vanilla Blossom and Sandalwood. Baby Phat L♥V ME (1.0 oz) retails for $28 in select stores nationwide, such as Walmart, Walgreens, CVS, Kohl’s and Kmart.
Calypso St. Barth at Target
Just in time for sun soaked days and balmy nights, Target is partnering with Calypso St. Barth, the global luxury lifestyle brand known for upscale resort wear, to introduce an affordable, limited-edition collection, including beauty bags and hair accessories. Ranging in price from $5.99 to $29.99, the items will be available May 1 through June 11 at Target stores and Target.com.
Shop the Calypso Collection at Target.com
Tracy Reese Sample Sale
Tracy Reese, plenty and frock! Sample Sale!
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